Tonight's conversation between me and Shelby. Seems so simple. Sounds incredibly simple. Yet to some, including this almost 8 year old little girl, it still seems like a game they're still trying to figure out the rules to. Or better yet, write their own rules.
There's one set of rules. Again...simple.
Me: So Shelby...please tell me why in the world you have lied about two very simple things today. (those two things being getting in my make-up and brushing her teeth.)
Shelby: Because I didn't want to get in trouble.
Me: And how did that turn out?
Shelby: I got in trouble.
Me: And tell me again...why did you get in trouble?
Shelby: Because I lied. Ooooooh...I guess I'd rather get in trouble for telling the truth.
Me: Remember...the trouble is a LOT less if you tell the truth. Plus, you will be proud of yourself. Are you proud of yourself now?
Shelby: Nooooooooo.
Me: Well I'm proud of you for finally telling the truth. Next time skip the lying part.
Shelby: Deal.
Trust me sweet girl...life will be a whole lot easier this way. The truth is a great habit to get into.
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